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Woman EnlightenedOctober 16, 2026Name the Two Truths Before They Drain YouA lot of women are not confused because they lack gratitude. They are tired because two truths are living inside the same season.Identity & BecomingSurviving theme
LeadHERshipOctober 14, 2026Skills Alone Will Not Save the CultureI would not let a leadership team talk about reskilling without also talking about trust.Leadership & WorkLeading theme
HerformationOctober 12, 2026A Fish Was Never Meant to Climb the TreeA leader once told me my greatest superpower was my ability to motivate others.Leadership & WorkLeading theme
Woman EnlightenedOctober 9, 2026Do Not Let a Viral Voice Outrank Your WisdomA confident voice on the internet can make almost anything sound true.Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
LeadHERshipOctober 7, 2026The Return of the Manager Is Not a Step BackI would put this question in front of any executive team flattening work right now: What did we ask managers to carry before we decided we needed fewer of them?Leadership & WorkLeading theme
HerformationOctober 5, 2026Give Without DisappearingBeing a giver can be one of the most beautiful parts of who you are. It can also be one of the most draining.Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
Woman EnlightenedOctober 2, 2026You Do Not Have to Optimize EverythingThere is a kind of tired that does not come from doing nothing. It comes from turning everything into something to improve.Rest & ResilienceSurviving theme
LeadHERshipSeptember 30, 2026The Manager Cannot Be the AI StrategyI would ask every executive team one uncomfortable question: Have we made managers responsible for an AI transformation we have not equipped them to lead?Leadership & WorkLeading theme
HerformationSeptember 28, 2026Fear Has Never Held the KeysI have always lived my life with a certain kind of fearlessness. Not because I was never scared.Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
Woman EnlightenedSeptember 25, 2026AI Opportunity Should Not Pass Women ByAI is not only a technology conversation anymore. It is becoming an access conversation.Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
LeadHERshipSeptember 23, 2026The AI Rules Are Not the CultureIf I were sitting with a senior leadership team right now, I would ask a plain question: Do your people know what responsible AI use actually looks like in the work?Leadership & WorkLeading theme
HerformationSeptember 21, 2026When Women Open DoorsI have had women open doors for me before. This season is not the first time. But it still feels beautiful every time it happens.Identity & BecomingMultiplying theme
Woman EnlightenedSeptember 18, 2026The Friendship That Helps You Hear YourselfSometimes the most practical thing a woman needs is not another plan. It is a friend who can help her hear herself again.Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
LeadHERshipSeptember 16, 2026When Urgency Becomes the Operating ModelI would put one question in the center of the leadership table: What are we teaching people when nearly everything arrives as urgent?Identity & BecomingLeading theme
HerformationSeptember 14, 2026A Woman With a Plan Creates Healthy DisruptionLately, I have been thinking about what it costs to be the woman who asks the question no one else wants to ask. The woman who notices the thing everyone else is pretending not to see.Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
Woman EnlightenedSeptember 11, 2026Purpose Does Not Require a Blank CalendarSome women are not confused about whether purpose matters. They are trying to understand where purpose is supposed to fit inside a life that is already full.Faith & MeaningGrowing theme
LeadHERshipSeptember 9, 2026Purpose Has to Reach the WorkI would put one question in the center of the leadership table right now: When everything around the work keeps changing, what are we asking purpose to do?Leadership & WorkLeading theme
HerformationSeptember 7, 2026Under ConstructionThe other night, Aubrie and I were watching Inside Out 2. Then the alarm went off. Puberty. And suddenly, everything changed. That is exactly what becoming feels like.Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
LeadHERshipSeptember 2, 2026If Leaders Are Learning AI, Why Are Employees Still Guessing?I would put one question in the center of the leadership table right now: Are we learning AI faster than we are helping our people understand how work is actually changing?Leadership & WorkLeading theme
Woman EnlightenedSeptember 2, 2026You Do Not Have to Become an AI Expert OvernightAnother headline says AI is changing everything. Another post tells you to learn the tools, rebuild your skills, protect your career, and move before the opportunity passes you.Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
HerformationAugust 31, 2026The Door Opens Both WaysI am used to being the woman who opens the door. The one who makes the call, shares the name, creates the opportunity, and reaches back for another woman. And sometimes, I am the woman standing in front of the door.Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
Woman EnlightenedAugust 28, 2026You Can Multiply Your Impact Without Multiplying Your LoadA woman can be doing work that matters and still notice that everyone now needs a piece of her to keep it moving. Growth can be good and the way she is carrying it can still need to change.Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
LeadHERshipAugust 26, 2026The Room Is Wider Than Your Leadership PlaybookIf we were sitting around a table today, I would put one question in the center: What are we seeing in our own organizations that the leadership playbooks we inherited no longer explain?Leadership & WorkLeading theme
HerformationAugust 24, 2026This Is Me, EnhancedI had been carrying my first book for years. Then, all at once, it was time to finish it. Not just write when inspiration found me. Finish it.Rest & ResilienceRediscovering theme
HerformationAugust 18, 2026Before the ApplauseRight now... I'm building something most people cannot see yet. I write words only a handful of people have read. I make decisions no one is applauding. I spend hours building a vision that, for now, exists mostly in my own heart and in my own hands...Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
HerformationAugust 10, 2026I Stopped Explaining MyselfI used to think an explanation was a kindness. Something owed. If I made a decision that affected you, even a little, you deserved to hear my reasoning, in full, with all the context that got me there...Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme- Woman EnlightenedAugust 10, 2026MothHERload: What the First Day of School Photo Doesn't ShowAubrie turned four this summer, and this month she starts a new classroom. I already know how the morning goes because I've pictured it a hundred times. I'll take the photo...Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
- LeadHERshipAugust 10, 2026The Strategic NoI've sat in the seat. Fifteen-plus years in it, most of them managing the exact kind of Q4 crunch you're staring down right now. I know what it feels like when the asks start stacking before the budget's even final...Money & FreedomGrowing theme
HerformationJuly 27, 2026Rest AnywayLately... I've been thinking about a different kind of tired. Not the kind that sleep fixes. The other kind. The kind that settles somewhere beneath your ribs...Rest & ResilienceSurviving theme
HerformationJuly 13, 2026I Don't Need Your PermissionFor a long time... I thought confidence meant never questioning yourself. I thought confident women walked into every room completely certain. Never doubting. Never wondering....Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
HerformationJuly 6, 2026Sit Down. They're Talking About You.I have watched this happen more times than I can count. A woman walks across a stage. Or stands in front of a room. Or receives an award. Or simply hears someone list all the...Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
HerformationJune 22, 2026The Dream, The List, & The ProgressA few years ago, my best friend asked me a question that changed everything: 'Do you have a list?' Not a dream. Not a vision board. A list. A plain, honest list of everything I...Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
HerformationJune 1, 2026Truth Leads to the DestinationA few weeks ago, my husband, my daughter, and I decided we were going to walk the trail to the playground. It's about a mile walk before you reach the playground itself, and my...Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
HerformationMay 18, 2026I Learned to Take Up Less SpaceI stopped talking in meetings. Not all at once. Gradually. The way you stop reaching for something after you’ve burned your hand enough times. I still showed up. Sat in the same...Identity & BecomingLeading theme
HerformationApril 27, 2026It's Not Emotional. It's Follow-Up.If you've ever been told, 'We didn't know you wanted that,' there may be more ownership in that moment than we like to admit. And I say that having lived it. I spent years being...Motherhood & CaregivingRediscovering theme
HerformationApril 20, 2026The Cost of Speaking UpI remember sitting in a room where everyone knew better. You could feel it. Not confusion. Not lack of understanding. Everyone knew. The numbers didn't make sense. The direction...Relationships & BoundariesRediscovering theme
HerformationApril 13, 2026I Didn't Panic Because I Was Used to WorseI didn't panic. I remember one night… everything went left. My mom was screaming. There was a man in our house. And before I even had time to think… I was moving. I didn't freeze....Motherhood & CaregivingSurviving theme
HerformationApril 6, 2026What I Thought Was NormalI didn't grow up thinking my childhood was bad. I thought it was just… life. Because everyone around me was carrying something. Chaos felt familiar. Struggle felt familiar....Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
HerformationMarch 31, 2026What Was I Thinking?I remember my first senior leadership role. I was excited. Not because of the title, but because of what it meant. It felt like a new beginning. It felt like everything I had...Leadership & WorkLeading theme
HerformationMarch 23, 2026Loving From a DistanceI’ve always loved people… I just learned to never let them get too close. That’s something most people don’t realize about me. Growing up, I learned how to read people. Not just...Relationships & BoundariesGrowing theme
HerformationMarch 16, 2026The Night I Realized I Was On My OwnI was about fourteen or fifteen years old when I first realized something many children should never have to realize. I was on my own. Not in the sense that no one loved me. My...Motherhood & CaregivingSurviving theme
HerformationMarch 9, 2026The Prayer Before the ApplicationThe moment I decided to apply for the VP role didn’t happen in a conference room. It happened quietly. At home. At my desk. Sitting alone. I remember staring at the screen and...Motherhood & CaregivingRediscovering theme- HerformationMarch 2, 2026Outgrowing Versions of MyselfGrowth is strange. Not because it changes your life overnight. But because it slowly changes what feels familiar. The conversations you once entertained feel different. The...Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
- HerformationFebruary 23, 2026Becoming in real time.I used to think becoming would feel louder. Like a breakthrough moment. A clear before and after. A version of me I could point to and say, “There. That’s who I am now.” But...Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
- LeadHERshipOctober 29, 2025AI. The Leadership Lie That Breaks TrustThere’s a growing trend in corporate culture that looks like integrity from the outside… but collapses the moment real pressure hits. It's referred to as Artificial Integrity. It...Leadership & WorkLeading theme
- Woman EnlightenedOctober 6, 2025MothHERload: How I Use ChatGPT to Manage My Mental Load (and My Christmas List )Some moms have planners. Some have sticky notes. I have ChatGPT. It’s become my digital co-pilot, the one thing keeping the invisible MothHERload from turning into complete chaos....Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
- Woman EnlightenedSeptember 22, 2025MothHERload: When Flexibility Isn’t Flexible AnymoreThis morning, while packing lunches and answering Teams messages, I realized something: the hardest part of my day isn’t the work itself, it’s what I’ve lost. Flexibility. Peace....Leadership & WorkGrowing theme
- LeadHERshipSeptember 17, 2025Leading in the Age of Distrust & DisruptionThere’s a survey out this month that says a lot of Americans are deeply dissatisfied with leadership across business, education, healthcare, and public service. People don’t just...Leadership & WorkLeading theme
- Woman EnlightenedSeptember 15, 2025MothHERload: The Heavy Cost of Being a Working Mom in 2025This past week, I read about how working moms are leaving the U.S. workforce in record numbers. Not because they’ve lost ambition. Not because they’ve stopped caring about their...Leadership & WorkLeading theme
- LeadHERshipSeptember 3, 2025The Labor of Leading Vendors with Relationship and AccountabilityWhen people think of labor, they often picture physical work or long hours at the office. But there’s another kind of labor that’s less visible yet just as vital: the labor of...Leadership & WorkLeading theme
- Woman EnlightenedSeptember 1, 2025MothHERload: The Labor of Love in Motherhood (And Who Carries Me)The other day, someone asked me a question that stopped me cold: “Who takes care of you while you take care of everyone else?” For a moment, I didn’t have an answer. I felt that...Motherhood & CaregivingSurviving theme
- Woman EnlightenedAugust 29, 2025WealthiHER: The Smartest Money Decision. Knowing When Not to AutomateAutomation has become the buzzword of financial advice. Auto-savings. Auto-pay. Auto-investing. And don’t get me wrong, automation is powerful. It removes decision fatigue, builds...Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
- LeadHERshipAugust 27, 2025Why AI Is Magical. But Not MagicArtificial Intelligence (AI) feels magical sometimes. It can analyze thousands of data points in seconds. It can generate content, predict trends, and surface insights that would...Technology & AILeading theme
- Woman EnlightenedAugust 25, 2025MothHERload: Why “Messy Motherhood” Is Still BeautifulLast week, I tucked my daughter into bed and replayed the day in my head. The screen time I allowed so I could finish work. The meltdown in the grocery store I couldn’t diffuse....Leadership & WorkGrowing theme
- LeadHERshipAugust 21, 2025The Power of Saying NoIn leadership, every yes is a decision. And every yes carries a cost. Last week, I was presented an opportunity that looked great on the surface: visibility, impact, excitement....Leadership & WorkLeading theme
- Woman EnlightenedAugust 18, 2025MothHERload: The Daily Decisions That Matter MostMotherhood is full of decisions, some small, some heavy, all constant. Last week, I caught myself second-guessing everything: Should I let my 3-year-old wear rain boots even though...Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
- LeadHERshipAugust 13, 2025The Meeting Where I Didn’t Speak First. And Won the RoomIn my early leadership days, I thought my value was tied to how quickly I could respond. Jump into a discussion. Offer a solution. Be the first voice in the room. But I’ve learned...Identity & BecomingLeading theme
- Woman EnlightenedAugust 11, 2025MothHERload: The Morning That Reminded Me to Put Myself Back on My ListSome mornings feel like I’ve lived a whole day before 9 AM. Not because of big deadlines, but because of the MothHERload. If you’re a working mom, you know exactly what I mean....Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
- Woman EnlightenedAugust 8, 2025WealthiHERHow I Built My Emergency Fund Without Skipping Coffee Let’s kill the myth: You don’t have to give up joy to build wealth. There’s this old-school narrative that financial freedom...Money & FreedomGrowing theme
- LeadHERshipAugust 6, 2025LeadHERshipLead Like a Woman, Not Like a Man in a Pantsuit When I first stepped into leadership, I tried to blend in. I lowered my voice, straightened my spine, and mimicked the men in the...Identity & BecomingLeading theme
- Woman EnlightenedAugust 4, 2025MothHERload: I’m Not Just Tired. This Is the MothHERloadThere’s tired, and then there’s the kind of tired that lives in your bones. The kind of tired that comes not just from doing too much, but from thinking about too much, planning...Rest & ResilienceSurviving theme
LeadHERshipFebruary 26, 2024Strategic Partnerships: Unlock the Power of Data Analytics in Workforce ManagementIn the fast-paced world of business, organizations are increasingly turning to data analytics to gain insights into their workforce and drive strategic decision-making. By...Leadership & WorkLeading theme
LeadHERshipFebruary 21, 2024Unleashing the Power of Workforce Management in Business StrategyWorkforce management stands as a cornerstone of organizational success, driving efficiency, productivity, and innovation across all facets of business operations. In today's...Leadership & WorkLeading theme
Woman EnlightenedFebruary 16, 2024The Beginner's Guide to Budgeting: Mastering Your Money MattersWelcome to Financial Freedom Friday, your go-to resource for all things money management! We're here to empower you with the knowledge and tools you need to take control of your...Money & FreedomMultiplying theme
Woman EnlightenedFebruary 15, 2024Communication is Key: Unlocking the Secrets of Effective Relationship DialogueCommunication is not just about talking. It's about truly understanding and connecting with our partners. But let's face it, effective communication doesn't always come naturally....Relationships & BoundariesGrowing theme
Woman EnlightenedFebruary 14, 2024The Power Of February: The Journey to Unshakeable Self-ConfidenceWelcome to Women's Wednesday Today, we delve into the magnificent journey of self-discovery and the pursuit of unshakeable self-confidence. As women of color and multiracial...Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
Woman EnlightenedFebruary 13, 2024Divine Intervention: God's Desire to Be There for UsIn this journey called life, we often find ourselves facing various challenges, hardships, and success'. It is during these stages of life that we may feel alone, overwhelmed, or...Faith & MeaningGrowing theme
Woman EnlightenedFebruary 12, 2024Trust Your Instincts: Your Superpower in Everyday InteractionsWelcome to today's blog journey! Join me as I share an eye-opening experience I had during a trip to the dentist with my toothpaste-loving, 1-year-old daughter. It was a visit...Identity & BecomingRediscovering theme
LeadHERshipFebruary 6, 2024Lead with Authenticity: Empowering Women to LeadIn an era where leadership styles are as diverse as the leaders themselves, one factor remains crucial - authenticity. For women in leadership, embodying authenticity is not just...Identity & BecomingLeading theme
Woman EnlightenedFebruary 5, 2024The Power Of February Series : A Symbol of Strength, Empowerment, and InspirationWelcome to our Power Of February series, where we will explore the remarkable achievements and struggles of Black Americans and shed light on the collective efforts that arise...Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
Woman EnlightenedJanuary 31, 2024Embracing Life's Storms: The Catalyst for Personal GrowthLife is full of ups and downs, and it is during the challenging moments or life's storms, that we often find ourselves undergoing significant personal growth. The reflection of...Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
Woman EnlightenedJanuary 31, 2024Motherhood: Unveiling the Hidden Career SuperpowersMotherhood is a transformative journey that goes beyond the duties of raising children. It's a professional experience that equips moms with a unique set of skills and qualities...Leadership & WorkLeading theme- Woman EnlightenedJanuary 31, 2024The Importance of Advocating for Your ChildrenToday, something amazing happened while I was reading a book to my 18-month-old daughter, Aubrie. As I pointed to the picture of an apple, I said the word and she repeated it....Motherhood & CaregivingLeading theme
LeadHERshipJanuary 25, 2024Triumphing Over Discrimination and Toxic Nice Cultures: The Journey - Recognizing the signsMy journey began with excitement and eagerness as I joined a company lacking a solid workforce management foundation. Yahoo! That is one of my areas of expertise, so I was...Leadership & WorkLeading theme
Woman EnlightenedJanuary 24, 2024Navigating Stormy Seas: Embracing Resilience and Overcoming Life's ChallengesLife can be challenging, throwing us unexpected curveballs that test our resilience and strength. I know this all too well, as I faced a series of devastating events that left me...Rest & ResilienceGrowing theme
Woman EnlightenedJanuary 24, 2024Pushing Past the Breaking Point: Enhancing Strengths & Overcoming OpportunitiesToday I'll be sharing my personal journey of pushing myself beyond my breaking point, gradually retraining and enhancing both my strengths and weaknesses. Join me as I walk...Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
Woman EnlightenedJanuary 24, 2024Unleashing the Power Within: Embrace Your Dreams & Create the Life You DeserveLadies, listen up! It's time to unleash the power within and create the life you want, the life you deserve. Now, I may be just a voice in your head, but trust me, I'm a voice...Identity & BecomingGrowing theme
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